Women especially say it is important to get to know someone before having sex with them. The workplace gives a woman the opportunity to observe a man – how he handles people above him and below him, his competence, his temper, his ethics, values, habits For most women, it works a lot better than bars Overall, 35 million Americans report some kind of social-sexual experience on their jobs each ueeku More than 80 percent of all workers say they’ve had such an experience on their job.23 When it works, we call it a wedding and the woman s picture is in the paper; when it doesn’t, we call it a lawsuit and the man’s picture is in the paper